It’s almost Thanksgiving! Here at Alef we are thankful for our readers, our writers, and the fabulous reporters and journalists who bring you the links that we collect and share every Friday.
1. If you haven’t already heard about the Hazon Israel (bike) Ride, then this is your chance to learn more. One of the riders has been traveling with a helmet-cam and reporting from the road (literally!).
Israel Ride 2011 – Highlights from day 1 from Elahn Zetlin on Vimeo.
2. This Rabbi has a radical suggestion — push back the Bar Mitzvah age to 25. Thoughts?
3. The Jewish Daily Forward sits down with funny Sarah Silverman and her Rabbi Sister, Susan.
No celebration is complete without that special Kodak moment, and we know your parents were sure to capture yours in film. Last month we put out a call for Bar and Bat Mitzvah photos to document the beauty and awkwardness of the age of thirteen. Take a gander at our favorite picks! L’chaim!
~Alef
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Photos provided by Lindley Spiegel, Josh Furman, Stephanie Spiegel, Meredith Druss, and Rachel Thompson.
Read more posts from Issue #13: Bar Mitzvah Season.
For the Jews, thirteen seems to be a lucky number — especially when we’re talking Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. So to wrap up our 13th issue, we went on the hunt for #13. You’ll never guess what we found: Shmaltz Brewing Company, the producer of He’Brew: The Chosen Beer, recently turned thirteen. So, of course, founder Jeremy Cowan couldn’t let the year pass without a Bar Mitzvah celebration and we couldn’t pass up the opportunity to chat with him about his company’s coming-of-age.
Alef: Tell us about your Bar Mitzvah, and how it influenced the way that you’re celebrating Shmaltz Brewing Company’s Bar Mitzvah year.
Jeremy Cowan: My personal bar mitzvah was in a suburban synagogue outside of San Fransisco in a reform community and it was very typical of 80’s northern California reform Judaism. Basically, I started He’Brew because I wanted to find a way to participate in the Jewish community in a meaningful and exciting and contemporary way that was relevant for me. But I also wanted it to be fun and a little bit outrageous, for other people to get a kick out of it so that they might also dig deeper into their own identities. So the Bar Mitzvah celebration this year had elements of text and tradition, but we didn’t have too many sacred elements. We got yarmulkes that everybody wore at the Great American Beer Festival and then at our parties throughout the last six months. Inviting people to share their Bar and Bat Mitzvah photos was hilarious, I don’t know if you guys checked out the website.
Alef: We did!
JC: It’s pretty amazing I mean, [laughs] everything from the very traditional and sincere to just ridiculous and silly, bizarre entries. Also, the band that was at my Bar Mitzvah was called “Hot Borscht.” I think I put together my set list for them to play. It was Led Zeppelin and Rush, and then they played the exact same set list from every other Bar Mitzvah and even threw in My Sharona. So when we had bands this year we wanted to make sure that they were kind of riffing off the absurdity of certain traditions — the set list was made up of hassidic surf bands, which was really cool.
Alef: You mentioned that you included a few more sacred elements in the celebration. How did those go over?
JC: Oh, it was awesome. I couldn’t believe how big a hit those yarmulkes were. I did a beer dinner and people were just loving them. I included a little line of instruction on it so that my non-jewish friends wouldn’t use it as a dog chew toy; it said “Happy 13th Anniversary.” Everybody got a kick out of it.
Alef: How would you describe your Judaism growing up? Was your family invested in some sort of specific Jewish community or were you secular, for instance?
JC: Like I said, I grew up in the suburbs of northern California in a reform synagogue. We were Jewish by self identity, not really by knowledge or practice, but I was Bar Mitzvah’d and confirmed and went to Israel on my teen tour when I was 16 so I did everything you’re supposed to do and a lot of things that you’re not. It wasn’t until I went back to Israel when I was about 25 and got a chance to work with an observant community for 3 or 4 months – and eat kebab and celebrate the holidays and learn about Torah – that I began to understand some of the more traditional elements of Judaism and started to argue about some of the more unusual parts of our culture. The experience allowed me to have a better, more multi-layered understanding of Judaism than I’d had in the past.
Alef: So, how would you define your Judaism now?
JC: Eh, personal. I mean, I’m not much more observant than I used to be. I have a deeper appreciation of my own ability to struggle with interpretation and to celebrate holidays and participate in the community. Working on the marketing and sales of the beer, I have no shortage of opportunities to be involved with the community from everybody who’s totally unaffiliated, just some random Jewish kid at a bar, to Orthodox communities that are celebrating Shavuot or Sukkot or doing events with Young Adult Division or Hillel. It’s been a wonderful way to participate and create my own path.
Alef: So we had to ask this question – would you say that after 13 years your beer has finally become a man?
JC: I was thinking that our punchline could be “Today I Am A Man” but, there are so many fun women home brewers so I stayed away from it. Also, half my staff is female and I want them to feel ownership in the company…but yeah, I think we have.
Photo by a tea but no e, licensed under Creative Commons.
Read more posts from Issue #13: Bar Mitzvah Season.
If you’re a 30 Rock follower, then you know what we’re referring to: Tracy Jordan’s hit single, “Werewolf Bar Mitzvah”. They may not have given you the whole song on the show, but we did a little poking around and found it, in its entirety, and we’re bringing it to you. But we have to ask, is this how you felt at your Bar or Bat Mitzvah?
Photo by Daniel Morris, licensed under Creative Commons.
Read more posts from Issue #13: Bar Mitzvah Season.
This week we introduce Issue #13: Bar Mitzvah Season
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As we started putting together Alef‘s 13th issue, we realized that thirteen often gets a bad rap. Defined, simply, as “a cardinal number; 10 plus 3,” this numeric landmark is undeniably significant. But why? How did “13″ ever come to be associated with the negativity we so often ascribe to it?
13 has been deemed unlucky for centuries, a distaste manifested to it’s extreme as Triskaidekaphobia. You guessed it, a fear of the number thirteen. Let us give you a little run down of why:
Leave it to the Jews, a culture fascinated with numbers (in the form of gematria) to give thirteen an entirely different significance. In addition to being the number of G-d’s attributes (according to the Torah) and the number of lunar cycles in the calendar, for Jews, thirteen is also the year of the Bar or Bat Mitzvah–that coming of age ritual oft-characterized by parties that fuel the hallway chatter of seventh graders. Between the study, the ceremony, the celebration, and the gifts, most of us have an opinion or two about this most important moment in a Jewish teenager’s life. We embrace ceremony, reject the ritual, go through with the ordeal anyway, and often come out the other side with at least one check for $18.
At the same time, some Jews never even entertain the idea. Whether they’re trying to defy their parents’ expectations by refusing to become a bar or bat mitzvah, or the ritual was never even an option put on the table, some of the Jews we’ve spoken with for this issue found their own ways to come of age.
So, for the next three weeks, share your stories, share your photos, and celebrate Issue #13 with us as Alef finally enters Jewish adulthood. We thought to print shirts that said “I Told My Story at Alef‘s Super Amazing Bar/Bat Mitzvah Celebration” but mom said that it was either that or the make-your-own-pizza buffet station. Oh well.
On that note, L’Chaim!
-Alef
Photos by Erika_Herzog and susansermoneta, licensed under Creative Commons.
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Bar Mitzvah Season Posts
Masada or Bust
To Become an Adult
A Bat Mitzvah in Lake Oswego, OR (503)
Bad Mitzvah
January 14
Bat Mitz-huh?
It Should Have Been Grandma’s First Bat Mitzvah
Right of Passage
The Accidental Bat Mitzvah
Spooky, Scary
Alef Interviews: Shmaltz Brewing Company Turns 13
Bar Mitzvah Photos!
Week 12: The Language Barrier
Week 11: Nice Jewish Girl No More
Week 10: A Jewish Relationship
Week 9: Big Q's, Small r's
Week 8: Black Jew Syndrome
Week 7: Non-Negotiables and Nice-to-Haves
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